The way you are, who you are, is a matter of choice. We have stories, past experiences, events that shape us. But still, who you are today and tomorrow is completely unwritten. You can choose how to be. If this sounds outlandish, it might be because no one has ever told you that you have a choice about who you are. But once you see that for the first time, you can then make a new choice. We always have more choices than we think we do.